The Complete Guide to Writing Wedding Vows
1. Start With Your Story
The best vows are deeply personal. Begin by reflecting on these key questions:
- How did you meet? What was that first spark like?
- When did you know they were "the one"? Was it a specific moment or gradual realization?
- What do you love most about them? Think beyond appearance to character traits
- What challenges have you overcome together? How did these strengthen your bond?
- What are your hopes for the future? Dreams you'll pursue together
2. Choose Your Style
Traditional & Formal
Classic, timeless language perfect for religious ceremonies or formal venues.
Personal & Heartfelt
Focus on your unique story with emotional, intimate language.
Light & Humorous
Include gentle humor and inside jokes for a more relaxed tone.
3. Structure Your Vows
1
Opening
Address your partner directly. Set the tone for your vows.
"[Name], standing here today..."2
Your Story
Share what makes your love unique and special.
"From the moment we met..."3
Promises
Make specific, meaningful commitments to your partner.
"I promise to..."4
Closing
End with a powerful declaration of your love and commitment.
"I choose you, today and always."